Astoria Characters: The Shy Actor

Ben Rogers is a real shy guy. At least that’s what he says.

By Nancy A. Ruhling
Ben’s first love is music.

He has no trouble being on a stage – he is, after all, an actor. But that’s different because when he’s playing a part, he gets to hide behind the character.

Talking about himself, well that’s another matter altogether.

“I’m a private person,” he says, adding that he hopes he can come up with at least one interesting thing to convey about himself.

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Ben is from Bournemouth, England.

Ben, lean and despite what he says, loquacious, didn’t come to the stage by a conventional route.

When he was growing up in Bournemouth, a coastal resort town in England’s County of Dorset, he took a fancy to music, teaching himself to play the drums, the harmonica, the guitar and the saxophone.

“I fell in love with the blues,” he says. “That’s one of the reasons I moved to the States.”

By 19, he was playing in a local band, and after studying media and communications at Bournemouth University, he followed a good friend to New Orleans. He was 25.

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New Orleans was his first U.S. home.

“The day after I arrived, there was a hurricane scare, and I had to evacuate,” he says. “It didn’t hit, but a year later, Katrina did.”

The flooded city dried up his music work, so Ben joined a landscaping crew to earn money. He also worked with a construction crew gutting houses that had been savaged by the storm.

“I did a lot of other jobs, too,” he says. “I wrote music reviews for the local paper, I was a bouncer – not a very good one – for a cigar bar, I was a cook, I was a dishwasher, I loaded and unloaded equipment for Jazz Fest musicians, and I even was a stand-in actor for films.”

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You can see Ben in productions by Theater For A New Generation.

He also picked up music gigs whenever he could.

“I played sax in a reggae band and harmonica in a blue-grass band,” he says.

At some point, he decided he wanted to take the stage. Not as a musician but as an actor.

Acting runs in Ben’s family: His maternal grandmother acted and directed community theatre productions.

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Ben tends bar in several Astoria establishments.

“I grew up watching people on stage,” he says. “I had a dormant interest; I wanted to learn the craft.”

So in April 2012, Ben came to New York City, taking up residence on the Lower East Side. A year later, he moved to Astoria.

“Six months later, Hurricane Sandy struck,” he says, adding that it felt like New Orleans all over again.

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Ben’s not looking for fame or fortune.

Two weeks after his arrival, he got his first big break: He met Mel Williams, the artistic director of Theater For A New Generation, a non-profit company.

Since then, Ben has had a steady job playing roles in its productions, which this year will include the Sam Shepard play True West.

“I’m not interested in being a celebrity,” says Ben, who is 39. “I do acting purely for the craft; it’s a noble art form. I doubt I’ll ever make a proper living from it.”

Speaking of making a living, to fill in the financial gaps between productions, Ben works as a bartender at various Astoria venues.

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He wants to teach acting to underprivileged children.

What he’d really like to do, though, is teach acting to working-class children in England, where the rest of his family is.

“These kids have a lot to say, and they can’t express it because arts funding has all but gone away,” he says.

Sometimes, though, Ben thinks about going back to music.

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Ben says England is likely to be his final stop.

“I’m very rusty,” he admits.

In his studio apartment, there’s a guitar crammed in the corner of the tiny kitchen. It’s still in its case.

“I bought new strings for it, but I haven’t had time to put them on,” he says.

Astoria Characters Day: The 10th Anniversary is Sept. 15, 2019. Sponsored by Bareburger, it’s a free, public event.

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